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你一心一意的付出,不一定能换来对方的一颗真心

2019-07-21 点击:1577 钢材新闻

这个世界就是这么奇怪都是一分耕耘,一份收获;都说一份努力,一份成就;都说一份付出,一份回报;都说一颗真心,换来另一颗真心

可是,有时候,现实又是如此的残酷一分耕耘,可以换来一分收获;一份努力,可以换来一份成就;可一份付出,不一定能换来一份回报;一颗真心,未必能换取另一颗真心。

人的情感,说不清,道不明。有时候,人生,真的就是一部电视剧,剧情跌宕起伏,没有任何彩排,没有任何预演,就那么真实而又戏剧性的出现,镜头下的每个人都不安预设出场,不按预设退场。

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野花开了又谢了

你明明是一心一意的,对身边的人,我们真的没有太多的奢求,也不曾想过要什么回报,只是希望身边的人开心,幸福。我们只是默默的付出,从来没有想过要得到什么

可是,当有一天,你发现,你的付出并没有换来真心的时候,是如此的失落,如此的伤心。

所以,有时候,爱一个人,真的不能完全埋没了自己,不能只是一味的付出,默默的付出,从来没有任何要求,以至于让对方觉得你的所作是应该的,理所当然的,不需要感激的,甚至,忽略了你的感受。慢慢的演变为忽略了你的存在。

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感悟生命

如此感慨,不光是感叹爱情,还有亲情,包括父母和孩子之间的情感。

爱人也好,孩子也罢,有时候做的太多了,迁就太过了,就失去了自己应有的位置。

XXMany people say that most of the problems in children are parents' problems. The child has the shadow of a parent. Indeed, our words and deeds have a great influence on children. Children will imitate adults in intentional or unintentional ways. The so-called words and deeds are basically the meaning. What I am going to say today is another kind of parent, a good parent, a perfect parent.

Parents are perfect, for the children, it is a blessing. However, not all children can understand that they are in the blessing. On the contrary, there are a lot of children, under the care of the parents, and with the parents' personal affairs, the children do not follow the parents and use the same heart and actions to reward the parents, but think that they should. The hands-on ability is extremely poor, selfish and self-interested, and the EQ is extremely low. There is no such thing as a parent. This part of the children, the parents have done too much, really pay too much, and let the children think that the whole world should pay for him so much that the world owes him.

When we finally felt that we were still growing up, we were able to find out that we had cultivated a giant baby, a giant baby who did not know how to be grateful.

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Awkward love

The child is so, lover is not the case.

Love, there are many forms, but you can't lose yourself.

Love, you need to pay, but you can't have no requirements, you can't have no bottom line, you can't just know the pay, and don't care about the growth of the people you love.

I think that true love is giving, but also letting the other person grow up, knowing your contribution, knowing how to return, and knowing gratitude.

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